Loyal relations are myths

Loyalty is the most rare thing in relations now-a-days. Feelings have become so shallow that loyalty is rarest of rare factor to find. Even people with a relation of 7 years have no loyalty at all in their hearts and relations.

My best friend, my companion, my would-be, my life partner are just words to address a person. But actually the person whom we talk about like this a neither a true friend, not a real companion, neither a real soul mate because the key factor of a healthy and successful relation (which people call LOYALTY) is missing.

People with blood relations are related with each other by heaven. But people with loyal feelings are actually companions. But unfortunately, we leave our all relations for that one companion...assuming that the person will share a loyal relation. We always feel ditched because of these assumptions. After a long time we can realize that our relations were fake.

Logically, our companions seems like a luxury dish that only we can afford and deserve. But unfortunately, we never realize that its just a leftovers of others that is served to us as a deserving meal.

Success in relations is like a cheating theorem. the maximum we can cheat, the more successful we become. Certainly the most common theorem among men. A good man will always carry many relations at a time, and land-up with someone whom he was able to cheat the max. no. of times.

Even females contribute a lot to the cheating theorem. they judge a person by their own feelings. If a woman has an instinct that she is being cheated, she will usually ignore her own gut feelings. Her lack of willingness to believe the own 6th sense makes her fall flat on face. She now ends up being cheated completely. If, she had believed her instincts, she would have been cheated few time. But her careless and ignorance attitude for the gut feelings makes her being cheated N no. of times.

Men are never loyal to others but women are not loyal to their own instincts. Women can be loyal to others but men will be loyal to his selfish motives.

I used to believe that love without loyalty would be so meaningless. But .....