hmmm...

Not all people want you just for fun because some of them want a relationship..

Not All people end up with break ups because some of them Wish to Love u more..

Not All people will hurt you because some Of them are actually true..

Not All people will Abuse You because some Of them Love to See u Smile..

Not All people will let you go away because some of them want to spend their lives with you.. ♥♥

Miss You...

I  really Miss You When Something Good Happens,

Because You Are The One I Want To Share It With.

I really Miss You When Something Is Troubling Me,
Because You Are The One Who Understands Me.

I Miss You When I Laugh,

Because You Are The One with

Whom even my smile grows gracefully.

I Miss You When I Cry
Because I Know That You Are The One
 who can make My Tears Disappear & set everything right.

I Miss You All The Time,
But I Miss You The Most When I am Awake At Night,
Think Of All The Wonderful Times That
We Spent With Each Other For Those Were the best
& Most Memorable Times Of My Life... !! 

BETRAYAL.....Death of soul .

When a person is in love everything seems to be green around him .The world seems lively and there is a glitter in eyes & smile on face. You feel that you are living for your loved one the earth is a most beautiful place. Time just fly’s with supersonic speed and even one feels there must be 48 hours instead of 24 hours in a day. Morning is brighter and the night is more romantic. The world around seems like a water bubble where the relationship is safe.

But the reality is brutal,the water bubble around you breaks and the relationship get shattered.The love for which you felt like leaving turns so painful that you will feel like dying because of it. You will not be able to see your face in the mirror as you have no answer to the question. “Why she did this to me?".Why she left me in lonely dark shadow?

The soul is hurt it starts bleeding it has nothing; no one who can console it .Who can extend arms to protect it from the betrayal.

LOVE- feeling or responsibility?

"I LOVE YOU" saying these 3 little words have become so casual that I actually forgot its REAL meaning. 

Sometimes we see love as being protective about family, hope for an understanding partner, some cheerful moments with friends or need of a physical relationship. But is it all that explains LOVE?  I believe- NO.  Very often I argue with my partner for small things, fight without reason. But I failed to discover whether it was my love or ego.

 Yesterday night, I thought my relationship is heading towards which direction? I see myself badly bugged up in certain family issues. I admit that I am so much involved in my small problems that I neglect rest of the world. So, I decided to be nice and courteous to people around me. I believe by being good to others, I can bring out the best in myself. Not even 24 hours have passed, I repeated 1 of my mistakes of being rude to the person I say I am in love with. Still we had some happy hours and I came back home. I failed to make up things well, not even for a single day.

I do everything according to my mood, with lot of expectations from my partner. I recall a few moments when my expectations were hurt. May be level of understanding in my relation is lacking. May be my partner is capable enough to hurt me. But what did I do????? When I look at myself, I found that a million times I was at my worst. There are few points I analyzed which were surrounded by complaints.

1. "I love you" means I accept you for the person you are. I failed here because I fight and often complain when things are not according to my mood and taste.

2. "I love you" means I do not expect perfection from you just as you do not expect it from me. Again I failed here, I know I am not perfect but I expected perfection from my loved one.

3. "I love you" means I will stand by you always. I failed again because in the beginning of my relation I made certain mistakes that were as harsh as betrayal.

4. "I love you" means accepting your frustrated mood. I failed since I got angry many times rather than being understanding.

5. "I love you" means moral support when you feel low. Here also I hold failure because for me, my problems are so big that I was unable to boost your confidence knowing that your problems are much more than mine.

6. "I love you" means that I know your deepest secrets and still I do not judge you for them. This was again a failure, my partner has been an open book to me, still I suspected.

7. "I love you" means that I care enough to fight for you keeping everything at stake but will never let you go. This might probably turn out to be the biggest failure, since I have to let go our relation. I do not want to move ahead, but the norms of the society are so restricted that only feeling are not sufficient to survive together.

My partner fulfilled all these conditions, but I didn’t. I believe, now I have lost the right to love or be loved. It is high time, I realized that love beholds expectations not complaints. Today, I am ashamed of being a pathetic partner and a loser. I wanted to apologize. I know that my partner will forgive me once again. But real apology needs realization and improvement. 

                                                           -- RAHI, for the journey of life

Moments- reality or myth?

Do ends really justify means? Sometimes we believe that a task has to be accomplished, irrespective of the fact of what it takes for completion. Assuming the same scenario for life, when people say LIFE IS JOURNEY....?? This journey of life should be about living and enjoying like a roller-coaster ride. Why do we keep everything on stake for upcoming uncertainty? Is ego more important than relationships? Do materialistic pleasures hold more importance than love?

When trust breaks in a relation, it does not make noise. Its an old story that all of us might have heard, if there is a relation and one of the partner broke others heart- both are left alone. Partners can be family members, friends, couple in love. But relation has to be there. A relation that has best embedded jewels like trust, affection, patience and hope. If any of the element is missing, its an obligation. On betrayal, something is shattered within. 

We run after achievements and profit motives to sustain a selfish self. These are the moments when we move ahead ignoring the relations we hold with our identity. This ignorance is usually the beginning of decay of emotions, that results in diminishing well-wishers. We ruin our relations ourselves and then keep searching for a true companion. 

We ignore the fact that there is always a pay back time, when we have to answer for our deeds. The same happens twice, one is surely during the life time and other is after life. Can we justify the end results which serve as milestones of our corrupt state of mind? 


                                                   -- RAHI, for the journey of life

ACCEPTANCE

It was an impulsive reaction when I woke up at 2:45 a.m. just because of a dream that I usually see. But this time it was something different as I could feel a chilling night and lonely house. It was neither suspense nor horror, its all about acceptance. When lots of things are going in a persons mind; even at the subconscious level, mind does not stop thinking. Even a pleasant sunrise does not give a feeling of a fresh start, if the mind is unstable.

We have different priorities in life. Acceptance is not about compromising or struggling, it is all about satisfaction. Whenever we come across situations, when we are forced to change our priorities - we are exhausted. We think of all happy and sad times, but finally conclude with the best solution that comes to our mind. But do we really accept all that life gives us? If we feel happy - its more than mere acceptance. If we are sad - we compromise. But what if we are not ready to accept life as it approaches us? This is what we call struggle. When we opt for living by our own choice, we believe that we are writing our own destiny. Sometimes we believe that even if we can not change our destiny, at least we have the courage to fight for our happiness. 

Is satisfaction everyone's cup of tea? If yes, then acceptance should be a reliable asset. If no, then it should be a precious jewel to be preserved. Acceptance has different faces pertaining to different situations in life, it is our decision how we take it. 

                                                                

                                                       - RAHI, for the journey of life

Probability - question or answer?

Very often we encounter such situations in our day-to-day life where we assume things as per our convenience. We try to predict the outcome of our own actions. But our predictability or guess is not true always. Actions are neither wrong nor right, its just the outcome that may be favorable or unfavorable. External factors also contribute in the the decision making process.

There is a saying- "well begun is half done", but does it really imply to all the situations? Sometimes, when everything goes according to plan is a dangerous sign of upcoming uncertainty. There are many situations when our mind says-"something is not working", situations like family problems, live-in relations, college life, job issues. But what if all goes well? Humans are never satisfied. Desire for many more things is always on mind.

We try to overcome all these feelings, which in turn creates more trouble. Sometimes we should let things move on as it is. What if we do not interrupt unnecessarily? Does life become easy or it becomes more difficult? Different phases of life brings different questions, and answers as well. But what turns out to be a key objective of life is LEARNING. Life is a journey of learning's, which does not have any end. When we encounter indecision, our mind is deviated to the negative probability just because we have a tendency to calculate risk. But if we see the positive aspect of probability, we look for upcoming opportunities and success ahead. 

It depends on the state of mind, whether we see a glass of water half filled or half empty. Negative thoughts always accompany depression, indecision and all the elements which pulls a person in backward direction. On the contrary positive thoughts always brings hopes, desires, opportunities and gives a boost to move ahead with success and contentment. Even if our decision brings dissatisfaction, we must remember that the action has been performed. The consequences is not a matter of few seconds, it might be silent, long lasting.

Looking at both sides of coin is fair enough provided we learn in all phases on life. This learning is a knowledgeable experience that adds a fruit to life. LIFE IS A PROBABILITY, if positive brings an answer; if negative, leaves a question. 


                                                                   - RAHI, for the journey of life

THIN MARGIN BETWEEN YES & NO

One day a man in his dream saw, that he was walking with God on a beach, his past was flashing on the sky. He was complaining to God about the life God gave him. Suddenly, God asked him to turn back, and he saw there were 2 footprints on sand - one was his and the other one was God's. God was walking beside him, throughout his life. He was happy and thanked god for his kind gesture. God asked him to look back again to the worst moments of his life. The man again turned back, but this time he just saw one of the foot prints on sand. He was sad and complaint to god- "you were always with me, walking by my side. Why did you leave me alone, when I needed you the most?"

God replied "My child!!! I love you, you are my best creation. I was with you every time so you saw two foot prints. But in your most tough time you saw single foot print, it is not because I was not with you; it is because I was holding you in my arms when you gave up. To let the tough time pass from your life and you regain strength and happiness to stand again.

There is a thin line between YES and NO. It is the fate of our deeds. When we decide YES - means we are determined to perform our roles irrespective of adversities. NO – is the indication of negative thought that blocks our path, it acts like a hindrance. There is even a condition that lies between YES & NO i.e. situation of dilemma, we give up in such situation and try to be on the safer side. This is the time, we prefer being silent rather than coming to a conclusion. It is a state of indecision. Sometimes we are lack confidence to decide what the answer should be and sometime we are threatened by the impact of conclusion on our loved ones, those who are close to our heart. Even if we stop performing, time plays its part. Our decisions make us credible. 

The motivation of inner self influences our decisions. There is a super natural power that dominates us and gets through in all stages of life. Sometimes we think its courage, sometimes we believe its GOD that resides in our heart and gives power to opt for the right answer.

                                                 RAHI, for the journey of life

Dreams!!!

Each one of us dream, may it be about health, wealth, friends, love, lust and many other things.

Sometimes what we dream is impossible but some dreams even come true. It is not that if a person cannot achieve what he dreamt about he must stop dreaming. Dream plays a vibrant role in once's life as well as the society he is in.  

Dreams give the platform for Invention as well as Innovation. Invention that had made our life so simple and smooth going would have never been possible, if great scientist and philosophers would have stopped dreaming. It was a dream that we can fly, then an invention took place and that was named as Aeroplane which actually fulfilled our dreams and today it is considered as the greatest creation of mankind. There were people who even after invention of aircraft did not stop dreaming about its betterment i.e. its speed and facilities and this lead to continuous improvement in its feature. Your dreams has the power to create difference.

So, for the betterment of humanity and mankind keep dreaming. 

                               RAHI, FOR THE JOURNEY OF LIFE

EVERY NEGATIVE GIVES RISE TO A POSITIVE

Have you ever thought why a negative thought comes in ones mind?

Have you ever thought why it happens that before starting a work we just give up saying it is impossible?

This is what is called as negative thought that compiles us to think so. Many maestro, dharma guru and knowledgable personal say that one should not get negative but it is not true always. As what my thought process says is not every negative is bad. If we see multiplication rule we find that the multiplication of two negative is positive .If we make it clearer we see every negative thought gives rise to an invention that protects life. After invention of Aeroplane someone would have thought negative that if plane crash then what will happen to the pilot and this negative thought led the pillar for creation of a parachute.

Moreover we know that the flow of negative electron gives rise to positive i.e. heat and light. So the difference is in the approach with what one takes this negative in life. If the approach is correct then it will light the light of happiness but if approach is wrong then it has even power to destroy once life as it will push you in endless miseries and sorrow. 

So take negative of life in a positive way and you can attain success, happiness and glory .      

                                                       RAHI, FOR THE JOURNEY OF LIFE

THOUGHT- An Essential Ingredient of Life

Thoughts are most constructive and destructive state of mind. We often think about family, career growth, social network, and other problems of day-to-day life. We say and believe that life is uncertain. But in actual sense life is the shadow of our actions. Anything we do first occurs in our subconscious mind; the way we assume things and think about it turns to reality. This is the first step that sets the pillar for the making of our moment of truth. We believe in success, then why to let depressive thoughts come to us. Life is an innovation in itself, it is all about creating this conviction that comes from our immortal soul. We should be prepared for the worst scenario with a stable state of mind to face the unpredictable condition. 

Depression on other hand is just an illusion ruled by negative thinking that creates hindrance in our path to success. It is we who have to tackle the uncertain situation in life. Voltaire once said, “Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers”, because a wise man’s question contains half the answer. Solutions are always there, but questions are more highlighting since they enlighten.

As a human, I firmly believe “If you greatly desire something, have the guts to stake everything for obtaining it”. Dreams will surely turn into reality.

But one must always remember that:

"There is no calamity greater than lavish desires, there is no greater guilt than discontentment, and there is no greater disaster than greed."

So, clarity in thoughts is the key to success as it defines the deeds and action in one’s life.

                          RAHI, FOR THE JOURNEY OF LIFE